It's pretty easy to find fault with a loved one, especially as expectations increase when people get closer. I'm very thankful for the great family I have, and for close friends who have took the brunt of my faults. If you've a loved one who hurts you, take heed that it is only love they are trying to show. Be patient and forgiving, for "He that loveth his brother abideth in the light, and there is none ocassion of stumbling in him. But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not wither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes."